How my spouse was miraculously transformed in my retirement?

The Rookie Retiree27 Jan, 2023Other

I was living my pre-retirement life with a great misconception. If I had to reduce it to one word, it would be ?victim.? In my mind, I was the long-suffering spouse who shouldered so much more responsibility both at work and at home, while my husband had the freedom to pursue life at his own tempo. Unfortunately, it was actually my husband who was the victim of my distorted thinking, even if I rarely expressed these feelings out loud. Although we had a fine marriage, my resentments were always an undercurrent.